Wednesday 26 March 2014

Noon Inspiration: SWITCH THE CHANNEL

Your memory is very powerful. You can be driving in your car when all of a sudden, you remember a tender moment. Maybe it was a sweet time with your siblings or loved ones. It could have been five years ago but when you remember it, it brings a smile to your face. You start to feel those same emotions, joy and warmth, just like it was happening all over again.

On the other hand,you can be enjoying your day but then start to remember a sad event when you weren't treated right, somebody did you wrong or you went through a loss. Before long, yow will be down and discouraged. What made you sad? Dwelling on the sad memories. What made you happy? Dwelling on happy memories.

It's interesting that our mind will naturally gravitate towards the negative. A study showed how positive and negative memories are handled by different parts of the brain. A negative memory takes up more space. There's more to process, because of this, we will remember the negative more easily than the positive. The example they used is that a person will remember losing 1 million naira more than they will remember gaining 1 million naira. The negative carries more weight. It has a greater impact than the positive.

Knowing this, we have to be proactive. When the negative memories come back to the movie screen of your mind, don't pull up a chair, get some popcorn and watch them all over again, No! that's not the only channel in your brain. There's another movie playing. It's not your defeats, your failures, your disappointments, it's a channel filled with your accomplishments, your victories, the things you have done right, the times you were promoted, when you met the right person, your blessings. Instead of staying on the negative channel, you've got to switch over to your victory channel.



Remember, if you want to move forward into the new things God has in store for you, you have to stop replaying the negative things from your past. Those memories will play the most often. The good news is that you have the remote control. Just because the memory comes up doesn't mean you have to watch it. Learn to change the channel and keep your mind focused on the good things God has in store for you.

Fix your thoughts on what is true and honourable, right and pure, lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise~( Philippians 4:8)

Friday 21 March 2014

60's Fashion Trends that you can easily wear Today.

There are so many fashion trends from previous decades that I am so not ready to be back in style (I’m looking at you 90s fashion!), but I am embracing the 60s comebacks with extra wide open arms. There were so many exceptional styles in the 1960′s that should be admired. 60s fashion was the epitome of effortless style with simple lines and minimal accessorizing yet each ensemble was as charming as can be.

From platforms to shift dresses, take a look at these 60s fashion trends that you can (and should) wear today!

Peter Pan Collars

I'm slightly obsessed with Peter Pan collars so it's safe to say this is my favorite 60s trend that has made a big come back. They are delicate, sophisticated and overtaking my wardrobe one dress at a time!

Shift Dresses

60s model Twiggy wore boxy shift dresses like they were going out of style. They are flattering and can be styled many different ways.

Big Hoop Earrings

If you look back at photos in the 60s you'll see bright plastic hoop earrings on every woman! It instantly adds a fun touch to your outfit.

Bold Prints

Big floral prints, bright geometric shapes, mixing patterns—all 60s trends that are making their way back into our closets.

Platforms

Platforms and clogs (especially wooden ones) are another 60s obsession. These ones are timeless and can be worn with literally everything you own!

One-Piece Swimsuits

Say goodbye to tiny string bikinis and hello to gorgeous and feminine one-pieces that have so much more character.

Thursday 20 March 2014

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Monday 17 March 2014

Nigeria Immigration Test tradegy (Thinking aloud).

My thoughts

Millions showed up for a test all over Nigeria to get treated like animals because the applicants decided to behave like un-intelligent beings, Tear gas had to be used to control them because they were much and the crowd was uncontrollable. Then the stampede at Abuja that resulted to loss of lives,This happened because the applicants were impatient. Read so much about the stampede and everyone blames the corrupt system and government. The applicants are to receive the blame too, the government wasn't at the stadium, the government didn't say "Please!!! youths, remain disorganised". Our youths need to be educated, education is not getting a certificate after a few years in the University, a lot of youths are not civil, I watched them on Channel news, some were pushing their fellow beings, just to get a seat, others will view this as "Survival of the fittest" but I see this kind of attitude everywhere, it's in the banking halls, during an election,on an ATM queue etc. I was at Lagos during the weekend and was surprised to see citizens queue up to enter a bus, if such citizens decided to rush and push,it's only logical that the weakest link or person in the queue will definitely sustain an injury or even be a victim of something far worse like death. If the applicants could not remain patient and enter the venue gradually, then such people will treat other humans wrong when given the job, After all, Immigration officers have power and abuse power also.

Yes!!! The crowd was like that because of the high unemployment rate and Yes!!! The government is to be blamed for not improving our social welfare over the past years but the lives lost could have been avoided, if the youths were organised.

I have heard people say a country like ours won't survive a natural disaster and I totally agree, what will happen after a disaster happens and relief items are being distributed? When I was in Univeristy, One of my lecturers during a lecture said "Most Nigerians behave like monkeys", when we asked him "How?" He said "You can walk into the boys hostel and see a perfect example, students use the toilet and would not flush, not because there is no water but because they don't just want to flush, when the building gets messy and starts smelling, they blame the school authority, Did the school authority use the toilets? It's the same with people polluting the environment, people throw their waste wherever without discipline or thinking about the consequences. I once saw an orange seller empty her waste in the gutter,I told her it was wrong, all she said was "Wetin concern you?". When heavy rain falls, it causes a semi flood in the city of Port Harcourt and all you hear is "Our government no dey try at all".


May God help us.

Friday 7 March 2014

The Anti-Gay Bill, a matter of culture and common sense.

By Raheem Oluwafunminiyi)


I am perturbed by the fact that the Anti-Gay Bill or law has come to divide a nation like ours with a rich sense of history, tradition, culture and values. A part of the divide is looking at the issue from the vexed standpoint of human right and its effect on a minority created from the imagination of its rabid supporters. I am even further irked by the fact that few characters among us are steadily losing grip of our African roots and consciousness that we now see the impunity inherent in being gay as the right thing for certain groups of people.“

The controversy surrounding the Anti-Gay Bill recently signed into law as announced by Reuben Abati, the Special Adviser to President Goodluck Jonathan on Media and Publicity, a few weeks back, has continued unabated. It even gets more exciting seeing several foreign countries strongly voicing their concerns on what they have described as an ‘obnoxious law’ and which they have argued threatens the ‘human right’ of some minority to freely associate. More than half of all social media platforms as well as the electronic and print media have joined in the euphoria. They have been publishing a barrage of articles, letters, opinions and commentaries from concerned citizens on the issue. In fact, this may arguably pass as the most discussed topic this year.

The anti-gay law has brought to the fore the very division that characterises the core of the Nigerian state. When I talk about division, I am looking at it from the angle of our collective senses or consciousness, which usually fails to table critically issues with reason, but rather on sentiments and supposition. It is even more saddening that as a people, we have lost our sense of history such that we cannot but miss the point when ordinarily we should be using our historical antecedents to solve issues of the day pronto. A peoples’ history is synonymous to its culture and way of life; it is heavily tied to the identity one carries from one generation to the other. This is why the Yoruba sees bowing and kneeling as a greeting culture that must be respected and preserved for posterity and why the average Hausa-Fulani would not jettison the handshake and hug for another form of cultural greeting to mention a few.

I am perturbed by the fact that the Anti-Gay Bill or law has come to divide a nation like ours with a rich sense of history, tradition, culture and values. A part of the divide is looking at the issue from the vexed standpoint of human right and its effect on a minority created from the imagination of its rabid supporters. I am even further irked by the fact that few characters among us are steadily losing grip of our African roots and consciousness that we now see the impunity inherent in being gay as the right thing for certain groups of people. The question I have failed to find ample answers to is how we as humans who claim to be higher animals have reduced ourselves to inane beasts with little or no sense of how we must relate intimately with ourselves. It is strange we cannot see how lower animals in our contemporary times have become so intelligent and sensible than the human mind in their relation with one another and in accordance with the dictates of nature.

It is appalling that the opponents of the law have failed to realise the present and future implication of their actions. Were they to understand, they would have seen the urgent necessity to quickly nip the vexatious cankerworm in the bud to avoid disaster. I feel strongly about it not because I profess a particular religious faith, but because I am an advocate of common sense, deep reasoning and true African values whose lessons must never be exchanged for abnormality.

The issue which arises here first is the notion in some quarters that the law was aimed at garnering popular support against 2015 from unforgiving Nigerians who more than ever before see everything wrong with the current administration. One may not know some of the strategies being put in place for next year’s general election, but it is the most laughable idea to believe that passing a law as important as the anti-gay law weeks back could be linked to some future political exigencies. This is so, because more than ever before and unprecedented in Nigeria’s history, the vast majority of our people have become conscious of the Nigerian political space that they cannot but wait to effect a change at all levels. The belief of the past that elections are won through all kinds of electoral malfeasance is fast dying out. The Anambra election, meandering and logistically deficient as it was, is a typical example of people’s power and how Nigerians are fast using their votes to effect change. Therefore, it is totally out of place to think the anti-gay law must have been aimed at drumming support for an administration whose ship, to many, is fast sinking by the day.

Opponents of the anti-gay law speak of human right. Does human right constitute giving individuals the right and privileges to constitute nuisance and commit impunity in the society? If because one’s sexual orientation does not fit into the natural existence of man, does it constitute an infringement of one’s fundamental human rights? Having deeply thought about it, I have come to the conclusion that the noise peddled about infringing the rights of gays to freely choose who to enter into a union with is total and absolute balderdash and simply the creation of the imagination of few elements who only want political and legal protection for their abnormal behaviour.

TO BE CONTINUED

• Raheem Oluwafunminiyi.