My best friend loves books, He loves books that can inspire him, books that can aid him, books that can improve his knowledge beyond everything he currently knows, I used to be like him, I love words and gaining new knowledge, that's the only sane reason behind me reading the oxford dictionary during my spare hours in secondary school and reading the newspaper often when I was in primary school.
After Jamb and year 2 in the University, I think I became a lazy reader but I am trying to repent and restore my relationship with books. Since my best friend is a book lover, he has a mini library, I recently borrowed a book titled "There's no such thing as Business Ethics" by John .C. Maxwell. He talks about ethics, how it's difficult to find companies and individuals who apply the Golden Rule and how the Golden Rule applies to business decisions and our personal lives. He also features real stories as examples. It's so educative, I love this book so much that I might have to re-read it. A part in chapter 3 captivated me and though I dropped New Year Resolutions two years ago, this part in the book has to be my 2015 resolution. They are ten rules for respect to live by, I will try living by them and expect others in my life to do the same. Here I go......
1. If you have a problem with me, come to me privately.
2. If I have a problem with you, I will come to you privately.
3. If someone has a problem with me and comes to you, send them to me (I'll do the same for you).
4. If someone consistently will not come to me, say, "Let's go see her together. I am sure she will see us about this." I will so the same for you.
5. Be careful how you interpret me, I'd rather do that. on matters that are unclear, do not feel pressured to interpret my feelings or thoughts. It is easy to misinterpret intentions.
6. I'll be careful how I interpret you.
7. If it's confidential, don't tell. If you or anyone else comes to me in confidence. I won't tell unless
a) the person is going to harm himself/herself
b) the person is going to physically harm someone else
c) a child has been physically or sexually abused. I expect the same from you.
8. I do not read unsigned letters or notes.
9. I do not manipulate; I will not be manipulated; do not let others manipulate you. Do not let others try to manipulate me through you.
10. When in doubt, just say it. If I can answer it without misrepresenting something or breaking a confidence, I will.
Looking for a new book to read? If you have not read "There's no such thing as business ethics", I recommend it. You will learn a lot.
Tuesday, 28 October 2014
Friday, 24 October 2014
DISCLAIMER: Information worthy of note to all current and potential clients.
There is a "Gospelc Anucha" on facebook who claims to be a Designer/Model with Mi'De Fashion County.
https://m.facebook.com/gospelca?v=timeline&refid=17
Gospelc Anucha is an imposter who claims to be a staff of Mi'De Fashion County.
We have no dealing whatsoever with this Gospelc Anucha and we have never had any dealing with him either as a model or as a staff.
He is misleading the public and also claiming to be responsible for most of our fashion designs.
He shares photos of our designs, claims it as his and asks his friends to rate him, This is intellectual theft.
We have one creative director and her name is "Chioma Olamide Udom" (Yours Sincerely), I am currently in charge of all sketches and designs of Mi'De Fashion County.
Anyone who patronizes him does so at your own risk.
Enjoy your Friday sweet Fashion Counts and Countesses, And I pray no lazy human takes credit for your work or craft.
https://m.facebook.com/gospelca?v=timeline&refid=17
Gospelc Anucha is an imposter who claims to be a staff of Mi'De Fashion County.
We have no dealing whatsoever with this Gospelc Anucha and we have never had any dealing with him either as a model or as a staff.
He is misleading the public and also claiming to be responsible for most of our fashion designs.
He shares photos of our designs, claims it as his and asks his friends to rate him, This is intellectual theft.
We have one creative director and her name is "Chioma Olamide Udom" (Yours Sincerely), I am currently in charge of all sketches and designs of Mi'De Fashion County.
Anyone who patronizes him does so at your own risk.
Enjoy your Friday sweet Fashion Counts and Countesses, And I pray no lazy human takes credit for your work or craft.
Thursday, 23 October 2014
A glimpse of the Nigerian Fashion Industry in 2014.
It’s no longer news to the world that the Nigerian Fashion Industry thrives every day with more fashion designers creating trends and fashion stylists spicing up these trends for fashionistas. We have more Nigerians and foreigners buying and wearing made in Nigeria pieces. Like the previous years, 2014 has been another good year for the industry. A lot of beautiful SS14 collections by Nigerian designers have been seen on the bodies of people from all works of life attending red carpet and random events.
More designers are taking the spot light in the international fashion scenes. Deola Sagoe and Clan presented their SS15 collection at the Mercedes Benz fashion week New York. Opening the show, Clan debuted elevated street wear designs that complimented the high end couture ideology of Deola Sagoe. Deola Sagoe featured garments of detailed cut outs and appliques. The LVMH Young Designer Prize also gave the industry a widespread attention as two of our own creative geniuses Amaka Osakwe of the fashion brand “Maki Oh” and Adebayo Oke Lawal of “Orange Culture” were part of the shortlisted candidates for the 2014 international competition. Another major high light for the industry so far is the Native and Vogue International Fashion Week Port Harcourt which featured top international and local designers and models.
As the year draws to an end, both established and emerging designers, fashion bloggers, fashion stylists, celebrities, socialites and in general fashion lovers are counting down to the Nigerian renowned fashion shows such as Lagos Fashion and Design Week and Music Meets Runway. The Lagos Fashion and Design Week is already which slated to take place on October 29th to November 1st.
This year, Lagos Fashion and Design Week has expanded to include other designers from across Africa, also it has added an edge to reach out to up and coming talents, this is called “Fashion Focus” which features British Council Fashion DNA Project. This ties in with British Council’s on going work to develop innovative, high quality events and collaborations that link artists and cultural institutions in Nigeria with their counterparts in the United Kingdom. As part of the partnership, LFDW is also working with Frallain Inc, a luxury brand group and Istituto Marangoni which is one of the best fashion schools in the world to offer 15 up and coming designers opportunities to be participants at targeted workshops and networking sessions between 2014 and 2015
The British Council collaboration on the project with LFDW will provide a wide raft of benefits including mentorship, designer support and opportunity to showcase at the international fashion showcase at London Fashion Week. It will also provide a chance for the young designers to show their collection to an audience of international buyers and fashion experts.
If you are fashion conscious, African and Nigerian, You can’t help it but bask in the glory of the progress happening in the Nigerian Fashion Industry. The growth tells us “We can achieve more and have Nigeria become a fashion hub for the world.
...Chioma Olamide Udom...
More designers are taking the spot light in the international fashion scenes. Deola Sagoe and Clan presented their SS15 collection at the Mercedes Benz fashion week New York. Opening the show, Clan debuted elevated street wear designs that complimented the high end couture ideology of Deola Sagoe. Deola Sagoe featured garments of detailed cut outs and appliques. The LVMH Young Designer Prize also gave the industry a widespread attention as two of our own creative geniuses Amaka Osakwe of the fashion brand “Maki Oh” and Adebayo Oke Lawal of “Orange Culture” were part of the shortlisted candidates for the 2014 international competition. Another major high light for the industry so far is the Native and Vogue International Fashion Week Port Harcourt which featured top international and local designers and models.
As the year draws to an end, both established and emerging designers, fashion bloggers, fashion stylists, celebrities, socialites and in general fashion lovers are counting down to the Nigerian renowned fashion shows such as Lagos Fashion and Design Week and Music Meets Runway. The Lagos Fashion and Design Week is already which slated to take place on October 29th to November 1st.
This year, Lagos Fashion and Design Week has expanded to include other designers from across Africa, also it has added an edge to reach out to up and coming talents, this is called “Fashion Focus” which features British Council Fashion DNA Project. This ties in with British Council’s on going work to develop innovative, high quality events and collaborations that link artists and cultural institutions in Nigeria with their counterparts in the United Kingdom. As part of the partnership, LFDW is also working with Frallain Inc, a luxury brand group and Istituto Marangoni which is one of the best fashion schools in the world to offer 15 up and coming designers opportunities to be participants at targeted workshops and networking sessions between 2014 and 2015
The British Council collaboration on the project with LFDW will provide a wide raft of benefits including mentorship, designer support and opportunity to showcase at the international fashion showcase at London Fashion Week. It will also provide a chance for the young designers to show their collection to an audience of international buyers and fashion experts.
If you are fashion conscious, African and Nigerian, You can’t help it but bask in the glory of the progress happening in the Nigerian Fashion Industry. The growth tells us “We can achieve more and have Nigeria become a fashion hub for the world.
...Chioma Olamide Udom...
Wednesday, 27 August 2014
Facing the STORM
Have you ever been so consumed with your problems and personal concerns that it seemed there was no immediate relief in sight? For example, Sandra is a faithful member of her church who has a loving relationship with her family and friends and is successful in almost everything she does. Recently, however, things have taken a negative turn financially and because the pressures of the challenges seem so great, the usually positive and proactive Sandra is struggling with bouts of depression and stress. She has tried to involve friends to help her resolve her issues, only to find that few have time or desire to listen to her problems.
While it may be hard to believe that a person can go from being a “got it all together Christian” to feeling down in dumps, it does happen. All of us have experienced this at some point in our walk with God; but instead of worrying or tracking down someone to join what could easily become a “pity party”, Use the source you know will never fail-God.
Everyone should understand the value of being prepared mentally and spiritually for attacks on our lives because they will come. In John 16:33, Jesus said “In the world, ye shall have tribulation but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world”. God has equipped you to handle the storms of life by trusting Jesus. Similar to Job in the Bible, there are times when challenges hit us on all sides and we don’t always feel like responding with the Word of God but be rest assured that God’s word is the solution to any problem. When you allow your responses and decisions to be founded on God’s word, you open the door for God to come in and turn your situation around.
Job was a man who faced some terrible situations. His children were killed, his livestock were destroyed and he was struck with painful boils on his entire body. Job had lost everything and I am sure he was tempted to completely give up and turn his back on God. Even his wife told him to just curse God and die because he was in such a pitiful state. But Job didn’t do that. While he did go through a time of complaining and questioning, he never gave up on God. As a result, God restored everything he lost.
When the storm of life hits you, what will you do? Will you become overwhelmed and lose your heart in the midst of worrying, obsessing and attempting to fix every problem yourself? Or will you pass the trust test and employ His help by calling on Him first? There is no challenge too great for Him to handle. He can cause all things to work out for your good when you pray and seek him. What you find difficult to do, God can perform effortlessly.
In the midst of trusting God, know that He may not use your preferred method to solve your issues. God has numerous ways to get things done and He will change situations in order to fulfill his purposes and promises.
You must be willing to get out of God’s way in order for Him to work. That means refraining from worrying, complaining and trying to fix things in your natural ability. When you worry, you hinder God’s promises from being able to work in your life. Instead, meditate on the scriptures, seek understanding and believe in what the word will do for you. Everything you need to survive the storms of life is in your Bible; so put it to use during the times you need it most.
Don’t forget that God is a prayer away. No, there is no quick fix for every obstacle you will face in life but if you are a believer, you have the very thing that will bring peace in times of trouble (John 14:27). Pray to God and He will answer. He promised to never leave or abandon you.
Develop a closer relationship with God by finding out more about Him and His promises.
GOD BLESS YOU.
While it may be hard to believe that a person can go from being a “got it all together Christian” to feeling down in dumps, it does happen. All of us have experienced this at some point in our walk with God; but instead of worrying or tracking down someone to join what could easily become a “pity party”, Use the source you know will never fail-God.
Everyone should understand the value of being prepared mentally and spiritually for attacks on our lives because they will come. In John 16:33, Jesus said “In the world, ye shall have tribulation but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world”. God has equipped you to handle the storms of life by trusting Jesus. Similar to Job in the Bible, there are times when challenges hit us on all sides and we don’t always feel like responding with the Word of God but be rest assured that God’s word is the solution to any problem. When you allow your responses and decisions to be founded on God’s word, you open the door for God to come in and turn your situation around.
Job was a man who faced some terrible situations. His children were killed, his livestock were destroyed and he was struck with painful boils on his entire body. Job had lost everything and I am sure he was tempted to completely give up and turn his back on God. Even his wife told him to just curse God and die because he was in such a pitiful state. But Job didn’t do that. While he did go through a time of complaining and questioning, he never gave up on God. As a result, God restored everything he lost.
When the storm of life hits you, what will you do? Will you become overwhelmed and lose your heart in the midst of worrying, obsessing and attempting to fix every problem yourself? Or will you pass the trust test and employ His help by calling on Him first? There is no challenge too great for Him to handle. He can cause all things to work out for your good when you pray and seek him. What you find difficult to do, God can perform effortlessly.
In the midst of trusting God, know that He may not use your preferred method to solve your issues. God has numerous ways to get things done and He will change situations in order to fulfill his purposes and promises.
You must be willing to get out of God’s way in order for Him to work. That means refraining from worrying, complaining and trying to fix things in your natural ability. When you worry, you hinder God’s promises from being able to work in your life. Instead, meditate on the scriptures, seek understanding and believe in what the word will do for you. Everything you need to survive the storms of life is in your Bible; so put it to use during the times you need it most.
Don’t forget that God is a prayer away. No, there is no quick fix for every obstacle you will face in life but if you are a believer, you have the very thing that will bring peace in times of trouble (John 14:27). Pray to God and He will answer. He promised to never leave or abandon you.
Develop a closer relationship with God by finding out more about Him and His promises.
GOD BLESS YOU.
Wednesday, 30 July 2014
A little inspiration from a beautiful song "The Sun Is Rising"
Hello Lovies,
I hope you all enjoyed your sallah break, the sallah break favoured me. God knows how much I really needed that break and the short holiday was wonderful to me, I think I even added a little weight because the monochrome skirt I had set aside for Wednesday is suddenly tight on me (a wide smile).
The song I want to share with you all today is good for your eardrums, Although it's not a new song, I heard it for the first time in the 2014 American romantic comedy "The Other Woman". I fell in love with it instantly, the sound and the words are perfect. It's by Britt Nicole, Enjoy!!!
THE SUN IS RISING BY BRITT NICOLE
When life has cut too deep and left you hurting
The future you had hoped for is now burning
And the dreams you held so tight lost their meaning
And you don't know if you'll ever find the healing
You're gonna make it
You're gonna make it
And the night can only last for so long
Whatever you're facing
If your heart is breaking
There's a promise for the ones who just hold on
Lift up your eyes and see
The sun is rising
Every high and every low you're gonna go through
You don't have to be afraid, I am with you
In the moments you're so weak, you feel like stopping
Let the hope you have, light the road you're walking
You're gonna make it
You're gonna make it
The night can only last for so long
Whatever you're facing
If your heart is breaking
There's a promise for the ones who just hold on
Lift up your eyes and see
The sun is rising
Even when you can't imagine how
How you're ever gonna find your way out
Even when you're drowning in your doubt
Just look beyond the clouds
Just look beyond the clouds
Whatever you're facing
If your heart is breaking
There's a promise for the ones who just hold on
Lift up your eyes and see
The sun is rising
The sun is rising
Even when you can't imagine how
How you're ever gonna find your way out
Even when you're drowning in your doubt
Just look beyond the clouds
I hope you all enjoyed your sallah break, the sallah break favoured me. God knows how much I really needed that break and the short holiday was wonderful to me, I think I even added a little weight because the monochrome skirt I had set aside for Wednesday is suddenly tight on me (a wide smile).
The song I want to share with you all today is good for your eardrums, Although it's not a new song, I heard it for the first time in the 2014 American romantic comedy "The Other Woman". I fell in love with it instantly, the sound and the words are perfect. It's by Britt Nicole, Enjoy!!!
THE SUN IS RISING BY BRITT NICOLE
When life has cut too deep and left you hurting
The future you had hoped for is now burning
And the dreams you held so tight lost their meaning
And you don't know if you'll ever find the healing
You're gonna make it
You're gonna make it
And the night can only last for so long
Whatever you're facing
If your heart is breaking
There's a promise for the ones who just hold on
Lift up your eyes and see
The sun is rising
Every high and every low you're gonna go through
You don't have to be afraid, I am with you
In the moments you're so weak, you feel like stopping
Let the hope you have, light the road you're walking
You're gonna make it
You're gonna make it
The night can only last for so long
Whatever you're facing
If your heart is breaking
There's a promise for the ones who just hold on
Lift up your eyes and see
The sun is rising
Even when you can't imagine how
How you're ever gonna find your way out
Even when you're drowning in your doubt
Just look beyond the clouds
Just look beyond the clouds
Whatever you're facing
If your heart is breaking
There's a promise for the ones who just hold on
Lift up your eyes and see
The sun is rising
The sun is rising
Even when you can't imagine how
How you're ever gonna find your way out
Even when you're drowning in your doubt
Just look beyond the clouds
Thursday, 17 July 2014
Fashion Tips for Rainy Season
These Days, with global warming constantly affecting the earth's climate system, I can hardly tell when it's rainy season and when it's dry season. I can't say much about other states in Nigeria but in Port Harcourt, It started raining in January, so my sub-conscious side is always prepared for rain, even if I leave my house with the Sun smiling at me, I still go out with an umbrella, it's now an accessory my hand bag can't do without.
Though rainy season is enjoyed by everyone, but getting drenched in the rain may not be a very pleasant experience for most people. You would want to just sit back at home with a cup of tea or someone to cuddle and enjoy the rain. However this is not always possible. Everything has its own advantages and disadvantages....
One major disadvantage during this season is the clothes. You need to take extra care of what you wear as clothes get spoiled very easily. Raincoats and umbrellas are a saving grace but the main idea is to look chic and fashionable for the season.
A Few Fashion Tips to Help You
Boots or rubber shoes: During rainy season it is best to say good bye to your favorite pair of heels and sandals. You can rather go for boots or rubber shoes. Leather and suede shoes are a big NO. You may just not be able to save them from the rains.
Bare Essentials: Carrying a few essentials is very important, especially during rainy season. You wouldn’t want your outfit to get ruined by mud and puddle. Make sure you carry a raincoat or an umbrella to protect yourself.
Bright Colors: Dig into your wardrobe for bright colored clothes. It’s always good to wear bright clothes as they uplift your spirit. Dark clouds would make you feel low and gloomy, therefore do not allow this to dominate you.
Bags: Make sure that you carry a big plastic or rubber bag during rainy season to keep your raincoat or umbrella. Plastic bags have also come into use, just in case you want to carry your leather shoes so that you can change whenever you step out. Since plastic is waterproof you can be rest assured that you wouldn’t get stranded in the rain without carrying one.
Image Credit: Colour Box
Though rainy season is enjoyed by everyone, but getting drenched in the rain may not be a very pleasant experience for most people. You would want to just sit back at home with a cup of tea or someone to cuddle and enjoy the rain. However this is not always possible. Everything has its own advantages and disadvantages....
One major disadvantage during this season is the clothes. You need to take extra care of what you wear as clothes get spoiled very easily. Raincoats and umbrellas are a saving grace but the main idea is to look chic and fashionable for the season.
A Few Fashion Tips to Help You
Boots or rubber shoes: During rainy season it is best to say good bye to your favorite pair of heels and sandals. You can rather go for boots or rubber shoes. Leather and suede shoes are a big NO. You may just not be able to save them from the rains.
Bare Essentials: Carrying a few essentials is very important, especially during rainy season. You wouldn’t want your outfit to get ruined by mud and puddle. Make sure you carry a raincoat or an umbrella to protect yourself.
Bright Colors: Dig into your wardrobe for bright colored clothes. It’s always good to wear bright clothes as they uplift your spirit. Dark clouds would make you feel low and gloomy, therefore do not allow this to dominate you.
Bags: Make sure that you carry a big plastic or rubber bag during rainy season to keep your raincoat or umbrella. Plastic bags have also come into use, just in case you want to carry your leather shoes so that you can change whenever you step out. Since plastic is waterproof you can be rest assured that you wouldn’t get stranded in the rain without carrying one.
Image Credit: Colour Box
Wednesday, 16 July 2014
A little inspiration from a beautiful song "IF TODAY WAS YOUR LAST DAY".
I dislike songs that have no meaning, whatever I listen to, has to have a meaning. I will be publishing some of my best songs and today, I will like to share the lyrics of Nickelback's "If Today Was Your Last Day", My best friend shared this song with me last year, I fell in love with the sound but most especially the beauty of the words. It's one song that helps me wake up, when I start to sleep walk. ENJOY!!!
"If Today Was Your Last Day"
My best friend gave me the best advice
He said each day's a gift and not a given right
Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind
And try to take the path less traveled by
That first step you take is the longest stride
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
If today was your last day
Against the grain should be a way of life
What's worth the prize is always worth the fight
Every second counts 'cause there's no second try
So live like you'll never live it twice
Don't take the free ride in your own life
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you're dreaming' of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
If today was your last day
Would you make your mark by mending a broken heart?
You know it's never too late to shoot for the stars
Regardless of who you are
So do whatever it takes
'Cause you can't rewind a moment in this life
Let nothing' stand in your way
Cause the hands of time are never on your side
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you're dreamin' of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
"If Today Was Your Last Day"
My best friend gave me the best advice
He said each day's a gift and not a given right
Leave no stone unturned, leave your fears behind
And try to take the path less traveled by
That first step you take is the longest stride
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
If today was your last day
Against the grain should be a way of life
What's worth the prize is always worth the fight
Every second counts 'cause there's no second try
So live like you'll never live it twice
Don't take the free ride in your own life
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you're dreaming' of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
If today was your last day
Would you make your mark by mending a broken heart?
You know it's never too late to shoot for the stars
Regardless of who you are
So do whatever it takes
'Cause you can't rewind a moment in this life
Let nothing' stand in your way
Cause the hands of time are never on your side
If today was your last day
And tomorrow was too late
Could you say goodbye to yesterday?
Would you live each moment like your last?
Leave old pictures in the past
Donate every dime you have?
Would you call old friends you never see?
Reminisce old memories
Would you forgive your enemies?
Would you find that one you're dreamin' of?
Swear up and down to God above
That you finally fall in love
If today was your last day
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